Rising Resilience Family Coaching

relational support for children, families and individuals


Tosh Montee

Welcome! I’m Tosh, an attachment focused family and transformational coach. I help people of all ages make sense of their world from the inside out and create more connectedness in their life. Some families who come to see me are experiencing difficult dynamics at home, and are ready to create communication and relational habits that increase understanding and harmony. Other families come proactively seeking parenting tools and support to nurture their relationship with their child. Individual clients come to unpack and shift outdated perceptions, feelings, and patterns so they can make room for meaningful change and growth. My approach is mindfulness based, somatically informed and relationally rooted. The work we do together is intended to defuse dynamics that disrupt connection, create new avenues of attachment, and develop tools of resilience that build tolerance for the hard stuff and presence for the good stuff.

Get to know me

Coaching Sessions

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Parent-Child

A play based, supportive environment where I provide education, guidance, and modeling in relational practices for both parent and child. These sessions are designed to strengthen attachment, increase co-regulation and deepen heartfelt connection.

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One on One with Children

A safe relational space where conversation and play are used to help children process emotions, build self awareness, and strengthen social-emotional tools.

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Teen

A place outside of the family circle to receive help navigating the intense pressures that come with immense internal and external changes facing teens.

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Parenting

A judgement free space to receive support and gain insight, clarity and tools that help decrease family tensions and increase connection.

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Adult individual

A safe place to experience warm authentic connection and reflection, as you cultivate self compassion, clarity, courage, and confidence, to create next level healing and health both inside and out.

Contact

I’m here to support you through meaningful growth and change.

Santa Barbara, CA

(805) 708-2218

RisingResilience@gmail.com